Have your own DIY Friendsgiving.

Open your table, share a meal, build community.

This Thanksgiving season, we're inviting everyone in our church to host a simple Friendsgiving meal with neighbors, coworkers, friends, classmates, or anyone who could use connection and community.

You don't need a large house, a perfect meal, or hosting experience. Just open your table and invite people into your life.

Open your table, share a meal, build community.

"… practice hospitality" - Romans 12:13

Here’s how you can do it!

Step 1: Pray

Ask God who you should invite.

Consider:

Neighbors

Coworkers

School friends

Sports teammates

Single adults

New families in the community

People who don't have local family nearby

Step 2: Pick a Date

Choose a day that works for you:

The week before Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving weekend

The weekend after Thanksgiving

Keep it simple.

Step 3: Invite People

Personally invite 3-10 people.

You can invite through:

Text message

Phone call

Social media

Face-to-face conversation

Use our invitations (grab them in the lobby)

Step 4: Keep It Simple

You don’t need to do everything yourself.

Ideas:

Potluck Style -

Ask everyone to bring one dish.

Dessert Night -

Serve pie, coffee, and conversations.

Traditional Thanksgiving Meal -

If you enjoy cooking, go for it.

Remember: People will remember how welcomed they felt more than what they ate.

Step 5: Create Meaningful Conversation

Here are a few simple questions:

What is something you've learned this year?

What was a highlight from the past year?

What are you hoping for in the coming year?

Step 6: Share Gratitude

At some point during the gathering:

Thank everyone for coming.

Go around the table and share one thing you're thankful for.

Encourage guests to stay connected beyond the event.

FAQ

  • That's okay. A kitchen table, apartment, backyard, or park can work great.

  • Make it a potluck or serve simple food.

  • No. This is primarily about building relationships and showing hospitality.

  • Start with a few people. Even 3-5 guests can make a meaningful gathering.

  • Take the risk anyway. Hospitality begins with an invitation.